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Self-Deprecating Quote

A line in which the speaker jokes at their own expense to disarm the listener.

A self-deprecating quote lowers the speaker on purpose. The move buys goodwill: an audience that has just heard you mock yourself is less inclined to mock you, and more inclined to listen.

The technique is close to the classical figure of self-diminishment used by speakers who wanted to seem modest before making a strong argument. Comedians, politicians and after-dinner speakers still open this way for the same reason — it converts potential resentment into laughter.

The quote only lands when the flaw named is real but survivable. Mocking a genuine failure reads as honesty; mocking something the audience knows to be false reads as fishing for compliments.

Common mistake: stacking several self-deprecating lines in a row. One establishes humility; three make the audience believe you.

Example
“I have never been a millionaire, but I know I would be just darling at it.”
— Dorothy Parker · She admits a lack and turns it into charm in the same sentence — the standard shape of the form.
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